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I am so glad i found this site!! My boyfriend is about to leave to join the RAF and i have so many worries going around in my head, like will it work out, will things be the same. We've been together for nearly 2 years and we are always with eachother, and we've only ever spent one day apart!! So, im gonna find it so hard when he leaves. He's told me that he's gonna find it more hard than me!! But, because im a big big worrier, iv been really worried. And it'll be nice to chat to you all about how im feeling, cause none of my friends understand it! I am looking forward to our life together though.
Any advice on what to do when he's away?
Kate xxxxx
hey kate i no what ur feeling,imm new to it all,me and my partner have bn together nearly 7 years and hav 2 kids and now hes rejoining army,i cant really give u much advise as i have it all to come,but i think if ur a strong person,ull get through it,i think the start of it will be the hardest and if u can get through that i think ull be fine,sorry not much help,xx
Aw, thanks Katrina. Im normally a weak person but i am very determined to become strong and supportive of my boyfriend. I just want to skip to the end part!! Hope all goes well for you and your partner!!
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Welcome to wags hun, the girls here will keep you sane! x
Hi My OH has just left today to rejoin the army too. hes going to be away now for 14 weeks doing basic! cant offer advice on what to do as im thinking the same lol :) xx
H Hun
Very big welcome to WAGS, I'm sure you will find lots of support and help around here from the girls.
Lucy XXX
Welcome to wags, Kate.
I'm sure you'll find all the answers to your questions on this site. There are many ladies who've been in the same position as you so jump in and join the fun!!
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hi ya and welcome, i was in the same postion as you 2 years ago, some how you get by, just thinking of all the time you can spend together when you see him. My oh has just been on his first tour and the ladies on this website are so helpful they somehow have all the answers to everything xx
Welcome to WAGs, i am a RAF wag too. Ask away and I'll answer anything i can!! xxxx
Welcome to WAGS, I am also a RAF WAG.
Try not to worry unnecessarily, even though it is easy to do and I am sure most of us on here are guilty of the same thing. You will get through any separation and it really makes you appreciate the time you have together.
Take care,
Veronica
Aw thankyou for being supportive, it does mean a lot and it makes me smile to know that when my boyfriend goes away i can talk to you all. Im feeling a lot better about everything now, i have been reading through everyones post. I just wanna know, does time fly past when there away? I hope so, Im really looking forward to moving in him though, its exciting!! :D
Kate xxxx
As long as you find things to keep busy time will fly (even if sometimes you think its not!lol)
Routine is THE key, it can involve all sorts, chuff charts, countdowns on here, writing eblueys, writing blueys, putting together parcels, taking up a new hobbie/class, etc.
I thought this tour would take forever and while admittedly sometimes it does feel like its dragging I know I will get there and its flying past quicker than I think :)
x x x
Welcome to wags!!!!! x x x
H Kate, welcome to WAGS! I'm a RAF WAG too, boyfriend joined last month and is doing Officer training at Cranwell, where is your boyfriend going to be?
I've found that the time goes really quickly - I've taken extra hours at work, and seeing my friends a lot more which I love. It's also put some extra sparkle into our relationship and made us stronger than ever - I'm sure most of the wags will tell you the same! xxxxx
time really does fly by, my oh has been on tour for the past 7 months and i cant believe that he is home on sunday it really has flown by, all you can do is keep yourself busy! xx
Hi, CharliePixie. My boyfriend will strart his training at RAF Halton and then he's going up to Hampshire for 22 weeks. He should be finished roughly on the 27th May 2009. Im looking forward to seeing friends, and maybe doing a night class or something like that to take my mind off things! xxxx
Hello all. I was just wondering does anyone know what will happen when your OH has finished their training, do they get to choose a few places where they would like to be based or are they told where there based?
Kate xox
Welcome to WAGs hunni. Look forward to chatting to you :) xx
Hiya
Welcome to WAGS!!! Look forward to talking soon.
Lucy XXX
I know when my oh finished his training he got to put down 3 places where they would like to go, if there are places on the sqd they will take them but my oh got told he could put anywhere down buthe is going on 2 sqd if he likes it or not, lucky that he wanted there anyway. xx
Hey welcome 2 wags hun!! x
Hey welcome!
My Oh is just finishing his specialist training. He's been at Halton since April.He's luckily getting posted near home at Kinloss so it's gonna be easier 4 me.
But any questions ask away!Even if u think they r silly!They really help tho and these girls r amazing!
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