pumpkinbaba
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Hi everyone, im a newbie.
My fiance (we getting married on the 11th July 2009) is going back into the RAF to become Military Police after leaving the Regiment due to wanting to change career.
We have a little girl together and the first time he was away, she was only 4 months, so didn't really understand, she's now nearly 2 and im wondering how this will affect her, as she very close to her daddy.
I know he can come home at weekends when he is training and when we are married we are hoping to get based in the family quarters at a base in Scotland.
Basically what im asking is has anyone else recently been through this/going through this as at the minute i feel really low about him going away again and we cant go with him yet?
I know we cant go with him on tour, but by then we will be married and have plenty of people around that are going through the same thing.
Sorry if it sounds like a rant or doesnt make any sense.:(
My fiance (we getting married on the 11th July 2009) is going back into the RAF to become Military Police after leaving the Regiment due to wanting to change career.
We have a little girl together and the first time he was away, she was only 4 months, so didn't really understand, she's now nearly 2 and im wondering how this will affect her, as she very close to her daddy.
I know he can come home at weekends when he is training and when we are married we are hoping to get based in the family quarters at a base in Scotland.
Basically what im asking is has anyone else recently been through this/going through this as at the minute i feel really low about him going away again and we cant go with him yet?
I know we cant go with him on tour, but by then we will be married and have plenty of people around that are going through the same thing.
Sorry if it sounds like a rant or doesnt make any sense.:(