Charliegirl
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Hi all, I guess I need to get a little off my chest, and maybe chat with some people who have already been there and understand a little more about the NavyWag life!
I have been dating my fella for a year, it was a year today in fact that we had our first date! He's a Lt Cdr - something to do with Engineering - I don't completely understand the whole terminology thing yet, it sometimes sounds like a new language, which doesn’t help matters!
He is going to Iraq in January for 10 weeks and I am starting to get a little nervous about how I am going to deal with him not being around as I know how iky I feel when I leave him for a day! We live 30 miles apart and so only see each other once or twice a week if we are lucky, as he has been home on a sponsored MBA programme so has been really busy with study and a hectic work schedule. As soon as I get him back from that - he goes away. I'm feeling a little blue!
He won’t speak to me about it, and when I try he just tells me that I knew about this before we started dating and that’s the way it’s going to be. He wont tell me how he feels about it all, and I don't know if he is going to miss me as much when he is away - he won’t talk to me.
He was talking about buying a house and us moving in together, and he wants to do it before he goes, but we can’t make the moving thing work with my job and where to buy so it all seems to have gone on the back burner, he is still going to buy but I’m not going to move in yet. I just feel that everything is always going to have to wait. I don’t do patience very well!
I know I’ll get used to it, and it is good we have this short run before he joins his ship at the end of next year. I’m definitely looking forward to making some new NavyWag friends to keep me sane!
Charlie x
I have been dating my fella for a year, it was a year today in fact that we had our first date! He's a Lt Cdr - something to do with Engineering - I don't completely understand the whole terminology thing yet, it sometimes sounds like a new language, which doesn’t help matters!
He is going to Iraq in January for 10 weeks and I am starting to get a little nervous about how I am going to deal with him not being around as I know how iky I feel when I leave him for a day! We live 30 miles apart and so only see each other once or twice a week if we are lucky, as he has been home on a sponsored MBA programme so has been really busy with study and a hectic work schedule. As soon as I get him back from that - he goes away. I'm feeling a little blue!
He won’t speak to me about it, and when I try he just tells me that I knew about this before we started dating and that’s the way it’s going to be. He wont tell me how he feels about it all, and I don't know if he is going to miss me as much when he is away - he won’t talk to me.
He was talking about buying a house and us moving in together, and he wants to do it before he goes, but we can’t make the moving thing work with my job and where to buy so it all seems to have gone on the back burner, he is still going to buy but I’m not going to move in yet. I just feel that everything is always going to have to wait. I don’t do patience very well!
I know I’ll get used to it, and it is good we have this short run before he joins his ship at the end of next year. I’m definitely looking forward to making some new NavyWag friends to keep me sane!
Charlie x