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Hi girls this is a little bit of a rant, but what is it with men being so paranoid all the time. my oh is a nightmare atm hes always wondering what im doing, i think its cause hes stuck on camp trainig and cant really go out and technically i can, not that i do. Arggghhhh just needed to get it off my chest its so annoying sometimes xxxxxxx
I had that wen my OH was in training its cos sum of the lads hes sharin wiv r makin him feel paranoid, b ok hun he will get ova this if he really trusts u!! xxxxx bin there, received the abusive txts n heard the accusations!!!!!!!!!!!!
mine wasnt annoying about it he just got worried because loads of fellas got dumped while they were in basic dont worry h un itl pass, the tables will probably turn xx
aww huni it does pass my oh was a bit like that during training, being hundreds of miles apart makes them wonder, plus right now u have a lot more fredom than he does (if hes doing basic) so he'll b jealous too, which barracks is he at a catterick and i'll go throttle him for u
Babe my OH is like that allllll the time!!! We went out last night with two of his squaddie mates and he got jealous that i went for a fag with one of them even though he doesnt smoke!!! Men!!! xx
He just needs to adjust to how things are cuz they are obviously different from before, give him a while to settle down but dont let it get out of hand. As much as things have changed for him they are probably nearly the same for you xx
mine does it all tym especially since i turned 18 cz now i have the freedom and am legally allowed to go out, it worrys him because hes jelous that ur having alife, having fun and surviving without him and he prob carnt get out n hs chance to think and become paranoid, like the ovas have said if he trusts u he will get ova it hunni x
Hi my oh is the same he is on tour in afghan at the moment and always askin me what i am doin where and who with. he so hates me having any male friends. he says it is because he is over there but it does my head in and i even get him askin if i cheated on him. xx
My oh was the same hun, he knew id never cheat on him but there are so many people who break up with their partners while they're away that he got paranoid. When he went to Canada last Feb there were lots of blokes with girlfriends, when he came back in August we were the only couple left!! One of the blokes had been with his fiance for 5years and they had kids, she just told him one day that she was leaving him. There are too many stories in the army of girls cheating i.e. The Wall of shame in the film JarHead? That they get paranoid. Dont worry hun it takes time but he'll realise that you wouldnt do that to him and the paranoia will melt away gradually :)
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