Ok girlies, help me out here..

[teresa]

Before my OH went in the raf he was constantly at it, horny all the time, he's been in about 8 months now, and I know when he comes home some weekends he's tired, but I can't help feeling like he's just not attracted to me anymore, we'll be laid in bed, and it's all just about going to sleep.....
HELP ME!!! lol, the only time he wants it is when he's drunk, or been away for a few weeks!!!! A girl has needs too!!!

Has anyone else had this problem or has he really gone off me???!!!
xxxx

[Emzy]

aww hun, i think sometimes it just happens in relationships, some couples hit a "dry spell", i wouldnt take it too personally, although its hard not to. tiredness can play a big part in it especially as they can often be really busy. maybe just drop a few hints to him, and maybe try planning a couple so "sexy" nights in??? my oh likes morning sex, maybe try that?? then he's got no excuse he's tired haha.

sometimes if we dont have as much sex as usual i think he's gone off me, i think its a paranoia we all experiance from time to time. xxx

[PrincesSarah]

My oh is like that too- it doesn't seem to matter too much whether I'm in the mood- we do it when he wants it (which isn't very often) and the rest of the time, the bed is just for sleeping!! xxx

[Gemmerr]

No, I personally don't think he has gone off of you.
I don't think it's anything personal, I just know from experience that the amount of work they do absolutely knackers them by the end of the week so they don't wna do anything. My guy always falls asleep if and when he gets a chance. He's always tired cos he does so much. I used to think maybe he's gone off of me but I know he hasn't and I am really positive that this isn't the case with your guy.

xxxx

[LoveMyMarine!]

Spice things up, make him an offer he cant refuse...I like to suprise him with a random out of the blue sexy text n maybe the odd picture. I also like to try new outfits (sounds trampy but ebay have some good stuff from the proper ebay shops and dirt cheap)

Do the things which makes his bones tingle, if i put red lipstick on, Kayle will instantly do anything i want him to its tried and tested haha-well except pots and taking bin out haha xxx

[becks83]

this thread is from March 09 lol! x