Worried he gunna end it with me...

[leigh_90]

Ok Gurlies...Im here again with my problems, feel like im worried or moaning about my relationship all tha time lately lol!!

Well bascially im gunna cut a long story short lol...Before i got with my OH, i used 2 have an ex called daniel (however i met him when he split up with one of my best mates) well he messed me around and i got with my OH but 4 ages my OH cant stand daniel as i told him how he treated me and wud kill me if i even spoke 2 him!!
But last nite i was out with my friend (The one daniel use 2 date) and she saw him and because she had a few 2 drink asked him 2 cum get sumat 2 eat with me n my other 2 friends...I didnt say anything cause i didnt really wonna be rude, well then daniel offered us all a lift home and my friends were all up 2 getting a lift with him but 2bf i would have just got a taxi as i knew my OH would go mad at me in his car!! Even though i wud never do anything wrong...anyways in the end we got a lift with him and i tried 2 act as friendly as i could lol but now i feel really guilty and cause me n my OH dont have secrets im gunna tell him he gave us a lift cause he wud only find out anyways!! But im so scared he will finish with me cause he really does hate this lad and it goes against anything hes ever said...But the only reason i got in the car was cause of my other friends!! Any tips on what i shud say or do? I dont wonna lose jake over sumthing stupid...but hes quite stubborn and im frightend he would just end it!! :( Help!! xxx

[Nicky6060]

Hey babe,

dont worry your self just be honest with your O.H i am sure he will understand, but your friends should not have put you in that situation. I understand what you are going through i have been there myself but honest is always the best key to a realtionship babe. I am sorry if i have not helped you much. good luck

xxxx

[mel w.a.lv craig x]

if its making you feel really bad then tell him, i am sure he wont leave you for that hun, just think of it this way would he have prefered you to go in a taxi on your own??? he should understand the circumstances that you were in. tell him as soon as possible hun before it really gets to you tell him how you feel. good luck!!

[xxlottexx]

dnt worry hun, he shud understand if you explain 2 him he myt fly of the handle at first but once he realised the situation you were in he will understand, and he will appreciate your honesty with him, hope you sort everythin out xxx

[xguccishoesx]

Well at least you got a lift off someone u know, with your friends, safer then a taxi i supose?

Your oh last name isnt O'callaghan is it hun? Bit wierd but to me Leigh isnt a common name, and I know a Jake that goes out with a Leigh and hes in the Army.. lol xx

[Vickyx]

As the other girls have said hun, you can only tell him the truth, I think he should realise that you've had the honesty to tell him as you could have kept it quiet.

Im sure he would rather know you were safe with your friends even in this blokes car as oppose to letting your mates get in the car and you make your way home alone.

xxx

[Vickyx]

Oops! Posted twice by mistake! Sorry!x

[Pink Lady]

I agree with what the other girls have said hun. Surely your OH will appreciate your honestly, and I'm sure (and I hope) your safety will be of greater importance to him, as opposed to the issue of you getting a lift with the bloke in question. I don't think you have anything to worry about, and I think you did the right thing by getting a lift with all your friends, as you chose the safe option, and your OH will trust you and he should understand why you did that. Hope it all works out ok hun xxx

[soldiers_bbygirl]

Theres 2 waiis to look at it...what wud u do if he did this 2 u. wud u lose trust 4 him as it was his ex g.f?? i think u shud tell him becuz if he finds out of any1 else..ur relationship mite b ruined by paranoia and lack of trust. gd luck bbe x