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Im my boyfriend is going into the RAF august and i dont really no what i am getting myself into??
I love him so much, he is my everything. i know it is gpoign to be hard. Need some help.. and some people to talk to ??
Can anyone help me???
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hey hun, welcome to wags. try not to worry too much, its not as bad as it might seem. at first its tough to adjust to a forces lifestyle but you'll soon get used to it. its defo worth it and it makes u apperciate ur relationship so much more. all the girls on here are fab hun and can help ya through anything xxx
hey honey
welcome to Wags! Emzy is right, this place is great! :-) do you know where your OH is going to be based? my oh is in the RAF, it does certainly test a relationship.... but also makes it stronger, you do have to take abit of a back seat gor his career, especially when he is new to the raf as he will probably go on trade training for about 18months but not sure if everyone does that, if you have a any questions about being a RAF wag feel free to ask me! this place is really welcoming and warm and will get so much support through the hard times.....
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Welcome Hun :D
My Oh is in the RAF too based on the same base as charlottesweb :D
Were WAGS on the same street haha!
Yeah it is a bit weird at the start but believe me you get to know all the other lads and theyre ohs and you all get together and its great me and charli are always down the pub with all the RAF lads!!!
Im always here to talk to hun and so are the other girls!!
And something will cheer you up, The Uniform :D :D
Especially on his passing out parade, number 1's yummy lol!
xx Layla xx
hey hun
welcome to wags, im an RAF wag too! The first year is hard but you will get used to it, you'll get into the swing of things and the time you do spend with your oh will be extra special!
and Rags right....the uniform, yummy! their passing out parade is amazing, you'll be so proud.
any questions just ask!
xxxx
hey devon, i know how you are feeling my oh is going into the RAF in august and i sometimes wonder what im getting myself in for. i have cried so many times because he is going away for long period of time and it will be hard but in the long run it will be worth it. me and my oh have been together for 3 years and just rencently got engaged and it feels like he is leaving me and like my heart has just been ripped out but i sat down and i thought about it all and yeh it is going to be tough to get through but it is all going to be worth it in the end.
when i first found out that my oh was going in the RAF i was pleased for him but as time went on i thought why is he doing this and i got really upset because i didnt want to be away from him. but from talking to the girls on here that i have realised that it is so bad and the girls are wonderful they will support you with everything. i now feel like i can get through it when he is away.
anytime you want to chat just send me a message.
jenny. x
[QUOTE=jennykins90;156381]hey devon, i know how you are feeling my oh is going into the RAF in august and i sometimes wonder what im getting myself in for. i have cried so many times because he is going away for long period of time and it will be hard but in the long run it will be worth it. me and my oh have been together for 3 years and just rencently got engaged and it feels like he is leaving me and like my heart has just been ripped out but i sat down and i thought about it all and yeh it is going to be tough to get through but it is all going to be worth it in the end.
when i first found out that my oh was going in the RAF i was pleased for him but as time went on i thought why is he doing this and i got really upset because i didnt want to be away from him. but from talking to the girls on here that i have realised that it is so bad and the girls are wonderful they will support you with everything. i now feel like i can get through it when he is away.
i was exactly the same.Didnt want to know about him joining the army, cos i cudnt face the fact that we was being split up and away from each other.But all the wags have helped x
Hiya hun welcome to wags! :D
I love him so much, he is my everything.
You need to remember that. No matter how long you spend apart. No matter how little contact you have, you need to concentrate on the love in your relationship. Don't just look on the negatives of him being in the Forces, there are far more positives!
You will adjust and you will find it easier in time. but the site is fantastic, the girls are incredible :D
:rolleyes: Don't tell any of them though, it will go to their heads :rolleyes:
Lauren xx
Damn it I seriously need to start looking at dates!!!! :mad:
haha u really do! lol her oh was on the same flight as my oh and they split up agesssss ago xxx
Oops :(
Shame it didn't work out.
Hard being a Military wag!! :o
Damn it I seriously need to start looking at dates!!!! :mad:
havent u done this a few times now? haha xx
havent u done this a few times now? haha xx
Yes, loads haha.
When I go into the overview of the forums, i click on the threads to the right. Not realising they are not new posts :mad: xx
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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hey hun welcome to wags :D
try not worry about it now, just wait until the time comes. Focus on enjoying and spending the time you have with him now, coz thinking about it when its months away will make you sick with worry.
We are all here for ya and will help you get through it, i was exactly like you before my OH joined the army. How long have you been with him for ?? x x x x
hey hun welcome to wags :D
try not worry about it now, just wait until the time comes. Focus on enjoying and spending the time you have with him now, coz thinking about it when its months away will make you sick with worry.
We are all here for ya and will help you get through it, i was exactly like you before my OH joined the army. How long have you been with him for ?? x x x x
hah zoe you need to read dates too! this is from last year and shes no longer a wag! xx
Hello and welcome Devon
I am a Navy WAG but he only joined last week so I can understand where you're coming from as its still so fresh for me.
I think I have found the hardest bit being the unknown to everything, the exact dates, how long his course will be, where will he be based after that, will he be going on a deployment shortly etc etc.
I have definately found this website a god send to me as it is keeping my mind off missing him in the evening. Since being together nearly 4 years we have only been apart for about 10 days in total so the concept of him not seeing me for weeks/months is really hard as I rely on his strength so much.
You do seem to easily adjust and my coping mechanism at the moment is to be naive and pretend he hasn't really gone, when I wake up it's like he has already left fo his old job, when I come home it's like he is out of the gym and when I go to bed it's like he is still in the lounge like most nights.
Im also thinking long term positives for example retires in only 11 years, he is on a better wage than he has been for the last 7 years, we can finally go on holiday, I can go out and meet him when he is travelling the world.
And make the most of the time you have whilst you still have it!
Cathy x
oh god lauren u hav really started somthing now! lmao xxx
haha confused me abit too!!!
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