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Seeing as we're ex wags now...would you still go out with a soldier or have you been put off the forces lifestyle?
Personally I wouldn't go out with someone in the forces again...after Matthew I dont think i'd put myself through it all again.
at the min iam stearing away from a milatery guy as i might be haveing to join the RAF and i want to have sum1 whos gonna treat me abit better i have had bad experiances with both exs who r both army so iam goin for civvi this time but if a nice millatery bloke pops up from some where than i might concider it
To be honest I can just picture myself meeting a lovely guy, good looking, attentive, we go out for a perfect first date, and then I ask what he does, and he replies "I'm in the army"... I would most definitely run away as fast as I could!!! xxx
haha hun thats made me giggle sorry but jsut imagineing it i prob end up sayin under my breath just my luck lmao
I know it was hard being with an army guy but alot of my exs have been civvies and most broke up because we spent too much time together and got bored of each other. I found the army gave the relationship a passion. You was always waiting to see each other and when you did you had missed each other so much that you loved every minute together. Does no body remember the way you felt when you knew they were coming home in one piece and the way it felt when they wrapped their arms round you for the first time in 6 months??? I know remembering this could be painful memories for some people but not all forces men will hurt us we just picked the wrong ones. Id not go out my way to date a forces guy but its not something im going to avoid xxx
yer i knwo what u mean hunni i wouldnt go out me way to date a guy in the forces and i dont know hun i never sore my ex at 6 month point well the ex that was on tour but i know what u mean i liked being with my recent ex it was good but it jsut got hard at the end alot of things happening but i wouldnt run away froma guy in the forces just takein it easy and not lookin if 1 pops up nice but if they r forces they gotta be something special to impress me now if they forces
lmao but if i could get a guy in a uniform for a bit of fun any day then still go for it lmao the uniforms still fit lol omg that makes me sound so bad lmao oh well
I've thought about this loads lol. I'd say he'd have to be something pretty special for me to get involved with him if he were in the forces - but then by the same token he'd have to be something pretty special for me to get involved with him if he were a civvy.
The navy relationship wasn't easy but the primary reasons I finished it were his womanising, alcoholism and selfishness and that could happen to anyone. I knew him before he went in though and the navy did change him, and wouldn't have said for the better. But the problem wasn't necessarily the navy so much as him.
v true hun my friends who got in the forces specially the blokes changed huge amounts when they got in aswell. i totally agree gotta be special weather civvie or squaddie lmao
ummm im not sure, at the time i wouldnt think anything about not seeing him for a few weeks and i think i coped with the afghan tour well.........but im not sure that i want to put myself through it all again, guess it would depend on the fella and how much i like him! wouldnt completely rule it out!
I think I will just have fun with boys in uniform, but not date them for a while. I don't think I'd mind someone at the end of his military career, but not at the beginning. I'm too old for that.
[QUOTE=mustntgrumble!;159386]I've thought about this loads lol. I'd say he'd have to be something pretty special for me to get involved with him if he were in the forces - but then by the same token he'd have to be something pretty special for me to get involved with him if he were a civvy.
Im with you on this one he would have to be pretty special but if I did met some-one who I liked an he turned out to be forces then I think I would just see how it goes :rolleyes:
I think I will just have fun with boys in uniform, but not date them for a while.
haha iam with u there hun lmao sorry iam ina really naughty mood have been for afew days now lmao
i dont want to be with another soldier,,, inless someone really special came along ect ect,,, but im not sure i want to go through all that agian now it is over.
Hope your all ok luv yaz! x
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