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but whats the acceptable amount of time to wait to get into another relationship after u were engaged and broke up?
Iam not asking coz i got my eye on sum 1 iam jsut askin coz i wanna know coz i feel real uncertain on the time frame coz i dont wanna look like a dirty whore coz iam gettin into a relationship before its acceptable
I think its down to you and when you feel emotionaly ready to get into another relationship/dating game, at the end of the day you dont go out seeking a relationship 9 times out of ten it just happens... so just take it all in your stride hun xxxxxxxx
It's different for everyone, so long as you know for yourself you are getting involved with them because you like them- not because you miss being in a relationship or want the male attention, then it's fine. Who cares what other people think anyway hun? Your real friends will know, and anyone else doesn't matter! xxx
thank u hun that a big help
I don't have a timeline on when it's ok, but I think the first relationship after shouldn't be that serious.
Hun I think like the girls have said you will know when your ready but I agree with waitin to maybe have some fun first too I know Im gonna lol
Definately with the girls on this one. There is no time frame, you will know when you are ready and it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks.
I also agree that personally I wouldnt rush into anything serious again though, enjoy having fun being single then maybe a few casual dates and see what happens from there xxxx
I agree, its when you are ready, but don't let a good guy go just because everyone says your on the 'rebound', there's no law that says you have to kiss lots of frogs before you find your prince, he may just be around the corner!!!
Amanda xx
thank u ladies u r all such a good help i just dont know what to do with myself coz if a nice guy was just round the corner i dont wanna jsut run away coz the feeling iam haveing that its not acceptable to date yet. thank u guys xxx
You'll know when ur ready hun, i wouldnt start worrying about things before they even happen, who knows if Mr.right is just round the corner or not but if he is just take things slow and see what happens! If it doesnt feel right, dont do it lol xxx
yer gud point hunni thank u iam still just finding thigs a little hard its werid not talking to andy and everything but oh well keepin busy busy busy iam gud now like but oh well hi u lot r brill thank u
I got with my new fella 3 weeks after me and matt finished, and ive never been so happy.
sod what's acceptable to others hun, it's what feels right for you. you only live once and you don't want to pass up mr right just because someone else might not approve. xxx
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