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Hey girls
Just needed a bit of a whine to get things off my chest. I went out last weekend and saw the ex with his new missus and it kind of cut deep because he looked so happy. He looked at her like he used to look at me and now i feel dead lonely and really miss cuddling up to him in bed and waking up next to him and all the other great stuff like the way he would just turn up and take me somewhere its was adventure after adventure with him and i really miss it. I just dont know how to take my mind off it. Any ideas??
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Hugs hun!!!
I don't really know what to say to make you feel better as that sounds like it was really hard to see!
But as your signature says, who knows what the future holds :)
Try getting together with some mates to take your mind off things.
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Its strange because i feel like im most of the way over it and when i think of him properly i think im better off its just when im alone and i think if he was still here we would be laid out on the sofa in each others arms watching tv. And i just kinda get swept over with loneliness.
It's ok to feel lonely. It's quite normal actually. Doesn't mean that it feels good. But you have to let it out. Then you do all the coping skills you learned when he was in basic or on a tour. Keep busy. Go clean your bathroom. Go for a jog. Call a friend.
The lonely will fade over time. The man who will love and respect you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated is right around the corner.
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The thing is i never had to go through basic with my ex and he was never really on tour. he was based in germany but we could talk every night and we ha webcams and it was actually about the feelings and not sex or owt. and we would just sit and talk about our future and know i see him with her and it cuts deep because i know shes got the future i wanted and she falls asleep in the arms i want. Selfish i know but it first time i felt like this since the split 3 months ago because i was too angry to care
Ah hun, as hard as it is it's best to have your cry and then realise that the guy who's right for you is out there and when he finds you, you'll know!
Hugs!!!
xxx
Big hugs hun...I know how you feel. I felt like that about James and I hated it so much would sit on our sofa in our flat and feel like that but I woke up this week and felt fine and things...You will just one day wake up and not feel so lonley without him realise that there is someone better for you out there...I believe everything happens for a good reason hun.
I really hope you wake up and realise that he was not good enough for you hun...and your so much better without him. Big hugs hun have some girly or me time he is the only one who is missing out at the end of the day
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I just done everything backwards! The way things ended made me so angry that i convinced myself to move on then all of a sudden it come crashing down from no where lol trust me to do it backwards lol
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