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I'll try and make this as snappy as possible. I met this guy at a party, I have no intention of becoming seriously involved with him, he flirted with me and because I'm a b**** I flirted with him. I figured it was harmless and didn't mean anything. I agreed to go out with him (because I'm a b****, just for the hell of it really), figuring that one date is harmless and doesn't mean anything.
It hasn't happened yet and I'm hoping it never will, as he has now become somewhat slimy, way too serious (he rang me up last night talking about babies). He thinks I'm playing hard to get, but the truth is I just don't wanna.
The obvious course of action (besides claiming asylum in some foreign land) is to disappear/pretend to be dead, but our social circles overlap to the point where this isn't possible.
How do I put him off without being rude?
Baby talk before a proper date??!! What a mentalist. Is he a friend of a friend then? To be honest if he's being this creepy then even if he's sort of a friend you don't need to be polite to tell him to back off. Though if you do want to be polite maybe meet him for a coffee (brief and informal) and explain you're not interested in taking things any further - if he still doesn't get it after that then turn on the scorn!
Hope you manage to get round it, good luck!
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LOL I know! Aren't women supposed to be the ones to rush in too fast?! We have friends and acquaintances in common yes so I can't exactly just disappear!
Brief and informal could be the way to go.
Don't know about that I've known a few guys who seem desperate to have kids after 5 minutes! Good luck with putting him off, let us know how you get on!
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Oh my gosh what a weirdo lol. I hope you get to the bottom of it. I have no idea how you could deal with something like that.
oow...I wouldn;t even meet him... I would go for the phone call and explain thanks but no thanks...You only flirted and maybe it was the drink agreeing with a date! Good luck! xx
i agree with princess just call him or even text him and just say you're not interested. xx
i agree with the phone call or text thing, i dont think i'd put myself in the position of being alone with him, he seems a little odd from what you have said
Well that's the weight of the world off my shoulders lol! I was talking to my friend Hannah about him today and apparently he's been doing the same thing to her. Thank God! I'm glad it's not just me.
So what I think we're going to do is suggest to him that we all meet up together, then we can start being really girly and discussing tampons and stuff and hopefully that will put him off! :p:D
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