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Patty
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Hi, I am new on this and have finally managed to work out how to post a thread.

The reason why I am on here is my ex has rejoined the forces, we were together when he had some time out. But he rejoined after we split up.

Anyway the other day he got back in contact with me, I had always thought about him alot so was pleasantly surprised to hear from him.

Anyway we were talking all last week, now he has dissapeared again.

Hes in the Blackwatch so I know he is off coming home soon.

I went on the chat room last night and I spoke to someone and they said they were returning in Nov, have they left yet then?!!? As I havent heard from him in a couple of days, he was saying he had a couple of more things to do, so I suppose I am worrying about now.

Does that happen normally, you dont hear from them for a couple of days, then you do again!?!? Also is there a firm date of when they return/??!?

Thanks
Patty xx

soldiers_bbygirl
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Hia bbe welcome to wags :)

My oh hasent really been away on tour or anything like tht, accept wen he went on excersise and i didnt get to speak to him for bout 2 weeks!
He was in a field in the middle of nowere, lol.
So yeh it does happen hun, crappy aint it lol
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Kirsty_louise
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Hi again Patty,
my mate was on msn after talking to you last night, he said they are due back on the 20th, but have decopression so will be back in the uk on the 24th :)
also it is very normall not to hear anything, theres not always means of contact, or they could be on day long patrols :)

xx

Lolo1982
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hello patty, welcome to wags xx

Patty
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Yep new to all of this, he contacted me in July then heard nothing, then he has been more in contact recently so thought he had lines of communication were always available.

He said he had to hand in all his kit Monday, so I presumed he was on his way home now.

Ha, ha.

But I knew he was busy, as he is a platoon sgt!!

Thanks for your help guys - I really appreciate it .................... lets see if he bothers to contact me again. Ha, ha.

Patty xx

emi-lou
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Hey and welcome to wags hun... Are you and your Ex still close?

Patty
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Hi honey,

Yeah we were............................. But we havent spoken for a very long time. Just thought it was weird when he contacted me.

Plus I am not 100 percent whether he is telling the truth about a couple of things - ha, ha.. but he was always a bit like that.

Thats why I doubt I will hear from him again, he said he was back and coming to see me 14th Nov!

Looks like he has done it again.

Patty xx

Gemzy
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welcome to wags hunni

sounds like everything is a bit up in the air for you at the minute. the girls on here are so good so if we can help ya with anything let us know we'll do our best. hope you manage to work everything out. keep us updated on how it goes

Patty
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Thank you so much.

Nope not a dicky bird from him.

I dont whether to be suspicious or worried...

Dont like feeling like this. xx

lil_sarah88
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welcome :) hope you fel at home here,
xxx

Patty
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Still not a dicky bird :(

I am so stupid. I feel a bit upset really. xx

lil_sarah88
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Still not a dicky bird :(

I am so stupid. I feel a bit upset really. xx

hey your not stupid, every1 has had a point an ex that they fall for so pelase do nto beat yourself up!! have you tried contacting him?

huge hugs anyway xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Patty
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Hi Ya,

Yeah just sent him an email saying 'have you run away and joined the circus' then just said that I was proud of him for what he has done and achieved whilst in Afghan, that I cant imagine what he has been through and never will.

That it was good to talk to him again and that as per usual he acted like a perfect gent & that if he was ever in my area, then to look me up.

I feel sad actually and gutted. But that was always him, he probably just needed a moral boost while he was out there.

So he leaves my life again..............

But thank you for your support guys. You never know I may mail back tomorrow and say he has contacted me.

xx

lil_sarah88
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Hi Ya,

Yeah just sent him an email saying 'have you run away and joined the circus' then just said that I was proud of him for what he has done and achieved whilst in Afghan, that I cant imagine what he has been through and never will.

That it was good to talk to him again and that as per usual he acted like a perfect gent & that if he was ever in my area, then to look me up.

I feel sad actually and gutted. But that was always him, he probably just needed a moral boost while he was out there.

So he leaves my life again..............

But thank you for your support guys. You never know I may mail back tomorrow and say he has contacted me.

xx

theres always some1 here if you need to chat, hope he does contact :)
xxxxx

Patty
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Thank you, I really appreciate it.... everyone seems so lovely on here.
xx