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So as you know I have split from D...
Well I have been dating and getting to know other guys and even write to one guy in Afghan and we talk on MSN he knows my situation and even though we have decided that we are both not in a great place atm we will still write to each other we get on really well as mates and I really like that..
I have been to see one guy who I know is not the right person for me, he is 8 years older than me (no biggy), but he has only bee divorced 6 months and has even apologiese as he can be quite emotionless. I know he is completly wrong for me, but something always keeps me going to see him or wants him to come see me and I get all excited when I go and see him or vise versa. I have taken a back step and not contacted him as I want him to be the one to want to see me and not because he has nothing better to do. He is also in the Army which I quite like as its what I know....
I do have a date tonight with a guy who is not in the forces and tbh I am not all the excited about it, which sounds wrong and I should be jumpin up and down, I dont know why I feel like this, ohh well we shall see how it goes tonight.
Any hints and tips ladies I havent dated in ages if ever tbh....
oooo emi-lou, how exciting!!
I think the best advice would be to just enjoy all the male attention heehee. Try not to read into anything too much and just see how they all go. ooooo I'm so excited for you, all that getting dressied up and butterflies and stuff heehee.
Most importantly, keep us updated on how it's all going!!
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aww have fun hunni. i love the feeling you get when getting to know someone new and the excitedness of it all. i was useless at dating so wont try and give you advice but just have fun and take things as they come. xx
Dont worry I will....
Its this whole dating stuff I dont like though the insecurity of knowing if you are going to get on bla bla bla.. Everytime I have dated (if you call going for a few drinks dating) it has gone no-where and the one I end up being with happens so naturally and we always forget how we got to where we are now.... Not that I am with anyone so maybe I should try and put a different spin on it...
Tonights date is coming round for tea. We were supposed to go out, but my babysitter let me down. I have been talking to him for a few weeks now and I am a pretty good judge of charecter, but if there are any problems all I have to do is shout and my neighbour will be down like a shot he is in forces (my neighbour that is) he wont take any prisinors lol....
I find dating excruciating :( (there's a lot to be said for arranged marriages lol) but the best advice I can give is just concentrate on having a good time for that date. No need to get ahead of yourself. And just remember - if you like him then brilliant, and if you don't then you never need to see him again.
I was thinking the same tbh musntgrumble...
Will update you when he has gone tonight :D
really good luck hun!
just be yourself and go in with an open mind, dont think that he isnt forces.
i was convinced i wanted a lad in forces again so wasnt at all excited when i went on date with current OH but now i couldnt ask for a better person.
keep us informed and relax xx
Well date now gone....
He brought me chocolates and was very polite and quiet he did chat, hmmmm not sure he ws nice enough, reminded me of my first proper bf not sure, there was no chemistry I know that much...
Dont think I will see him again :(
thats a shame, but was it nice to have some male attention? xx
Awww hun go u!!!
Have some fun thats the advice im going to give you :)
Beautiful!!!!!
I no what u mean bout u like that guy as its "Army" and thats wot u no as id prob be the same!
It would be wierd to be with a civi after all this time.
Good luck hun :)
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Awww, oh well :)
Although if he's polite, you could do a lot worse than a polite man ... but I understand that sometimes you just don't really hit it off with someone.
but could he of just been shy? maybe another date? cause my OH is very shy and on our first date it was really nice and hes polite i mean there was chemistry but he was shy, so i made the first move by holding his hand and kissing him, cause he didnt want to do snythin in case i didnt like it, (sometimes hes still like it)
yeah I think he was a little shy, but he could hold a conversation. I think what I like is a mans man, if you know what I mean, and that he aint... I also like to look at a man and go wow and week at the knees straight away and that I didnt....
God I think I am too fussy for my own good.
He has just text me and asked if I would cook for him again!! not sure see how I feel next week, dont want to rush things now!
your not fussy hun, you just know what you want and what you are looking for.
its like walking into a shop, if nothing catches your eye you walk straight back out, if something does catch your eye you take the time to have a look.
first impressions count for alot.
i know what you mean about the army thing,iv never dated a civie, i dated one marine before OH, a PTI in the army, 2 army commandos, an MET in the navy etc......never ever dated a civie...
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