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Well basically I havnt spoken to ex oh since last week when he deleted me from facebook and said he never wants to c me again. In that time he met up with this new girl but realised he didnt like her especially seeing as she had a boyfriend. At about midnight last night he text me wanting me to goover to his for well im assuming sex. I kept saying no, i said its not fair to keep doing this to me, if he wants to be with me then we can talk if not leave me alone, he spent 3 hours texting me tryig to persuade me to go over. I never went as I knew he was drunk, but y choose me, he probably could have got it fromanywhere. He is going back to camp today after his christmas leave and i said to him last night it just seems as tho u miss me and now your going back to camp u see that and wanna c me. Now hes ignoring me again. Its a good job iv got stronger cause there was a part of me that just wanted to be close to him again, I said y me and he said there is a big empty space in my bed and I want u to fill it he said u never kow if u come over maybe we can see what happens. I said it wasnt fair to bribe me and to play games. Nowimbeing ignored again y is he doing it. x
can u delete and block his number of your phone?
my ex was the same esp when he knew i moved on and was with sum1 else he hated the fact that i didnt need him and loved someone else.
I think you need to break all contact from him, other wise hes gonna keep messing with ur head xx
Oh dear thats not nice! Its possible hes ignoring you as u rejected his offer! You know wat men are like!! He seems confused to me hun, deleting you on fb and saying he never wants to see u again, then caving in a week or so later? He prob feels like a bit ov an idiot, tho i suspect this isnt the last you'll hear from him xx:) You know wat they say about being drunk? The truth tends to come out as u drop ur guard so im guessing theres still feelings there on his part! I can ignore hubby for days but give me a glass ov wine and im text happy within the hour lol
Sounds to me like you did the right thing by not going over!
The fact that he was bribing you is completely out of oder!! He knows how you feel about him and he was using that to get what he wanted but now it hasn't worked he's spat his dummy out!!
I'd txt him if i was you and tell him how you feel about him but make it clear that you aint allowing yourself to be used and if he wants to see you then he see's you sober and without expecting sex to be part of the deal.
If he truely loves you then hell have no problem with this what so ever!
Hope your okay hunni xx
What an idiot!! Your worth alot more than just sex hunni!! Thats no fair to just do that too u, have u told him how u feel? Im sure u love him and it would have been hard to stay strong when he was asking you to go round, but it just proves u are strong hun and u can say no to him. Dont let him walk all over you and pick u up and drop u when he wants.
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Thanks girls, yh i have told him how i feeland i said tohim if he wants toc me then it has to be sober and it would just be to talk things through. I think he still has feelings and after last night hes realised tht i wont be walked all over. I think yr right tht it wont be the last time i hear from him. hes soannoying but u know what, he finished with me and he wanted me to move on and he got his wish im not gunna let him muck with my head xx
Well done you hun. It must have been so hard to keep reisting when it would have been so easy to have gone round and pretended everything was ok.
If he really is interested in you still, he'll be in touch and want to talk etc, if he doesnt it was just a botty call so you were right to pur him off. Sounds like you are already being very sensible about it...good for you xxxx
Wow - you should give yourself a big pat on the back. His true colours have come out - if he was serious then he would meet you like you suggested.
If my ex asked me to go to him i would have ran like a fool - ive done it before when we split up and he said he jst wanted to be '**** buddies' - so i got my stuff and left. That was before we split for good.
But because i love him - if he rang now id probs go and see him. Id love to have the strength you have.
Well done hun.
xxx
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