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Seriously bad down day girls.
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Help, not finding it easy to support him right now and not staying positive!!!
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Hey hunnie, whats up?
hugs
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Aww hunni, whats wrong? xxx
aww hunni whats wrong :( hugs, hope ur ok xxx
Just having a really bad down day.
Negative thoughts kep popping up about how can I plan a life with him, and have kids if he's away, it scares me that I might lose him because of this.
I always hoped he'd leave when we settled down but if this isnt going to happen I dont know what to do.
Just done feel brave and miss him so much it hurts. Wrok is pants at the mo and he's so happy, Im pelased for him but feel like I ahve nothing here.
god shut me up how depressing is this lol
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awww ur so not alone chick.. this goes round my head constantly aswell...but u will be able to settle down and plana family...its not all gonna be negative....stupid as it sounds my oh has got me counciling from his work... to deal with these sort of things and to deal with tours...yes im weak..lol....
just want to save my relationship...xx
thanks Emz.
Just having a really bad day
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aww well i really hope u pick urself up soon.... its horrid having feelings like this but things do get easier and things will get much better and more live-able...ull b fine hun... just vent on here and we will be here for ya...xxx
Sorry to hear your having a bad day we all have those thoughts i know Wednesday night i got my self in to such a state over worrying about stuff thats happening over the next few months that i made myself ill !!
But the next day is always a brighter one we are always here if you want a chat
Try to keep smiling huni lots of hugs
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I know how you feel! The past week I've hardly been on here cos I was on a real downer, between a lonely valentines day and thinking I couldn't cope with him being away any more but not knowing what to do about it, but then I realised we've passed the half way mark and May isn't really that far away. I don't know if you feel the same but I don't like to talk about it with him too, cos I wonder that if he knew how I felt he'd either get frustrated with me about it cos I've always known he'd have to go away, or if he'd just fall apart even more than I have. But then I'll go from feeling that low to completely content all over again, I know that when I'm doubting whether I can cope with it it's just a phase and that in the long run I'd rather have him come home smiling to me after six months than never see him again. I think all of us can agree that it's painfully hard, but most definitely worth it in the end! :)
Ahhh girlies thank you.
Yeah I can never talk to him, It's hard being the strong one when all you want to do is cry like a girl, and the last thing we want if for them to feel worse and feel like it's their fault!!!!!
Grrr Men lol
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Morning hun
Sorry to hear you are feeling a little down. What sort of work is it you do, is it at all possible for you to consider changing jobs or trying something you've always wanted to do?
I know it sounds shallow but take yourself for a haircut/style, that may make you feel better about yourself. I know it's not a long term fix but hopefully will make you smile. Or you could try doing something different every day, whether it is small or big, at least then you'll have something that's new and positive to speak about when he calls.
Try not to dwell on the negatives, I know it is easier said than done but you don't want to be consumed by the grey cloud.
Hope this helps a little xxx
Thanks girls, work is just really stressful at the moment, so busy but not ina good way.
spoke to Tom Monday and he said he was coming home next week, but last night he says he wants to stay, i cant deal with the mind changing and that I got my hopes up.
this isnt getting easier its just getting worse and i dont know if i can deal with it
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[QUOTE=emma-jane84;229952stupid as it sounds my oh has got me counciling from his work... to deal with these sort of things and to deal with tours...yes im weak..lol....
just want to save my relationship...xx[/QUOTE]
Babe you are not weak for going to councilling if anything this shows how strong you are and the fact that you want to work at your relationship... It makes me so sad when peole say they are weak for going to councilling....
Keep your chin up girls and PMA PMA :)
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