Having a wedding wobble...

[priscilla]

For some reason last night I couldn't sleep for ages for worrying that the wedding just won't be as good as it could be because we've had to rush it quite a lot - I'm sure it's silly cos it's not about the trimmings it's about us... but I know if we had waited we could have looked around for more venues and maybe saved more towards one of the more expensive ones I had my eye on initially, also OH is now adamant that he wants a hog roast and the hotel we've booked has said they probably won't be able to do that so he's annoyed about that; plus I keep thinking about extra people I really want to invite and we're running out of spaces even for the evening!

I feel like such a diva now and I don't like it :( I think maybe I just wish that he was here and would actually bother to give his opinions about things, I worry that he won't think I've done a good enough job with the planning, he's already complained about the date as it's later than he originally wanted and we won't have time for even a mini-honeymoon because he has to go for his homecoming parades the week after but it's hard work trying to get everything organised in such a short space of time! I have told him this and he just says it's fine but I still worry...

Sorry for rambling, feel a bit better now xxx xxx

[kathryn]

Babes, I am sure you have done a marvellous job in planning your wedding, so stop panicking!!!!

He has to realise the effort you've put into it all whilst he has been away, and I am sure on the day itself, he will only have eyes for you, and not even worry if there is a bloomin hog roast lol!!!! :p

You are bound to have last minute panics about things you think you should have done, things you may have done differently, but like you say, the day is about you two, and nobody else, so long as you two are happy, then everybody else will be :D

Give me another couple of months, and I will be posting exactly the same thread!!!!

Chin up babes, you have done a fantastic job so far, you should be proud of yourself!!!!

xxxxxxx

[Emzy]

aww hun i went through the same thoughts as you!! i started thinking i'd chose all the wrong things, my dress, the bridesmaid dresses, the venue, the food literally everything. i planned it all without my oh there. we did it on a friday coz it was a big cheaper. i ran the date past oh first, he said it was fine, then nearer the time, he tells me he's on a course that week!!! luckily they let him go, so we only had that weekend and then he had to be back at camp. dont worry about the honeymoon, you've got plenty of time for that. we were gonna do it in a couple of years, but we're looking to go for one this summer now.

trust me, it'll all be brilliant. these feelings are normal. it's probably nerves/anxiety/excitement/worry etc all rolled into one making you feel like this, at least i know it was for me. xxx