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I feel rotten, girls. I know it's only been a week but I hate feeling like this I never cry over blokes ever and yet it's all I seem to do now.
I just feel like somebody's pulled the rug from underneath me ... Everything was fine and I was looking forward to seeing him on Friday. Then suddenly, BAM "I'm not coming home ever and I'm not going to see you or speak to you ever again" :confused:
I cannot get over somebody in this way! He's doing an incredible job of acting like I don't exist, and I haven't tried to get in touch with him either. Even though I feel like there's a million things I want to say to him, I don't feel like there's any point because it's just like he's been posessed and is a totally different person who I can't get through to.
I'm going out with my friends and I'm pampering myself and all the usual stuff. I just don't think I'm cut out for a civvie relationship & it's frightening me, I don't want to be single forever.
oh hun :(
i really feel for you. i completely understand how you must be feeling. its not like there was a big argument or that you were expecting it or anything... one minute you are a couple, the next you arent... but day-to-day nothing has actually changed at all. im not surprised you are feeling strange, and probably not actually' feeling' as though its real at all...
i still think he has been extremely cruel to do this without any real explanation and so completely out of the blue too!!! is it next weekend that hes meant to be coming home to do the big swap? i hope he turns up, and does the grown up thing about it all.
the only thing you can really do at the moment is just keep as you are doing... trying to distract yourself and have some fun.. cry when u need to, pin a target (i.e. his face) to the wall and throw things at it at random intervals, and hopefully, with time... you will feel better about it. but remember, you loved/ still love him and no one is expecting you to turn off your feelings immediately. thats impossible.
men are very good at pretending that they have turned theirs off, but i honestly doubt Kev has changed how he feels about 'you' that quickly.
as for getting into a civvie relationship.... you dont need to be thinking about that just yet. this is all still so fresh so ur not in the right place to get into 'any' new relationship... when you are ready, you will meet someone and it will feel right- it may be another forces lad, or a civvie... but either way you will adapt to the new situation just fine missy!!!!
by the way, even tho ur not with him anymore.. i still think you should come down and visit meeeeeee!!!! x x x
Ohhh hun. Like you said, it's only been a week. Don't expect too much of yourself. Crying is good because it's letting it all out, so let yourself. And don't think about the future. I can guarantee you that you won't be single forever so just put it out of your mind. Just keep going sweetie, you can do it, you'll start to have the odd day with no tears soon enough.
Huge hugs!!!!!!!!!!!
xxxxxxx
Yeah it's Friday he's meant to be coming home. I really wanted to ring him today, but I'm going to ring him tomorrow and just leave him a voicemail saying can you let me know what the crack is.
God Bless Carla for talking me out of caving in and ringing him for a chat. At the end of the day if he wanted to speak to me then he'd have rang me by now, he obviously has no interest in how I'm doing.
I feel like a loser. All of my friends are living with their boyfriends and buying crockery and having babies, and I'm just the annoying single one AGAIN :rolleyes:
And God Dammit I'm a cool dude, it's not fair :(
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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:( aww suzie like you said it isnt like you to get this down but like the girls said its best to let it all out rather than bottle it up. You will find someone hun i can guarntee it, youve just got to giv it tym. Have you been out this weekend? x x x x x
Yeah it's Friday he's meant to be coming home. I really wanted to ring him today, but I'm going to ring him tomorrow and just leave him a voicemail saying can you let me know what the crack is.
God Bless Carla for talking me out of caving in and ringing him for a chat. At the end of the day if he wanted to speak to me then he'd have rang me by now, he obviously has no interest in how I'm doing.
I feel like a loser. All of my friends are living with their boyfriends and buying crockery and having babies, and I'm just the annoying single one AGAIN :rolleyes:
And God Dammit I'm a cool dude, it's not fair :(
hey hun yes you are a cool dude and its his loss you deserve so much better than he's giving you!! the hardest part is that u didn't see this coming so its hit you hard and thats why your crying please dont feel like a loser go out and have fun and try and take your mind off him. Its still really new and it wasn't just a fling so it hurts like hell you never know what the future holds what dont break you makes you stronger and as times go on you will see that maybe he wasn't the one for you or eventually he will come to his to realise he lost a good thing! I hope when he see's you he will see that he's been silly make sure you look sexy as hell and make his head hurt ur beautiful and will find someone huge hugs hun xxx
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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And God Dammit I'm a cool dude, it's not fair :(
yup u sure as hell are a cool dude :D x x x x x
Its soo hard going through something like this.. but you cant expect yourself to be over it already.. as you had no warming as in most break-ups people argue for weeks and have the upset there and hae the confusion at that stage with what is happening.. but you have it all at once with the confusion and the greving.. so dont try and push yourself to 'get over it' as you are handeling it so well, youll always have wobbly moments. xx
aww suzie *hugs*. Firstly chill out about the single thing- you are a gorgeous, young, blonde nurse- I highly doubt that you'll be single for long :p But dont even think about that yet, you need to do whatever you need to do to get over him. It's only been a week, you're doing soooo well hun. I think you definately need closure, I dont blame u, it was so out of the blue. I'm a bit lost- have I missed something, are you still swapping things this weekend? or has that changed? xxx
Last time we spoke Stace he said he might come home this weekend. Might. That's all I've got at the moment. So if he does then yeah it will be this Sat or Sun that we do it.
I don't know what to do with the blueys he's sent me. Part of me wants to give them back because I just don't want to keep them, I can't.
I don't know what to do with the blueys he's sent me. Part of me wants to give them back because I just don't want to keep them, I can't.
put them in a box and hide them under ur bed or at the bottom of ur wardrobe. right now uve got every right to feel bitter about everything,... but eventually ul feel less angry and it might be nice to keep those, for a little while at least.
then, when u are well and truly over him, u can get rid of them any way u choose, as a kind of statement to say- i am over him!!!
That's true.
I shall keep them, and then wipe my bottom with them :cool:
Suzie I spat out my drink reading that lmao thats right girl power he's a loser for losing you xx
Lol I won't really wipe my bottom with them, it would be rather uncomfortable!
I'm going to keep the first one he ever sent me and then the last one he sent me before he came home. He can have the rest. It's too dangerous for me to keep them because I'll just get drunk and dig them out and read them and cry whilst listening to Whitney Houston & necking cheap vodka.
aww huni, big big hugs...
like the others have said, its only been a week and its even harder when you didnt see it coming.. but i promise you, you will meet someone incredible. i feel the same as you, my mates all got boyfriends just as rich and i finished and they are already moving in together.. but our time will come... All good things come to those who wait!... time really is a good healer..your a tough cookie and youll be sparkly soon i promise
now go wipe your bottom xx
now go wipe your bottom xx
<3 Lollllll!!!
but our time will come... All good things come to those who wait!... time really is a good healer..your a tough cookie and youll be sparkly soon i promise
now go wipe your bottom xx
both your time will come and someone will come along and rock your world :p
Lol I won't really wipe my bottom with them, it would be rather uncomfortable!
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Ouch sounds painful lmao
Last time we spoke Stace he said he might come home this weekend. Might. That's all I've got at the moment. So if he does then yeah it will be this Sat or Sun that we do it.
I don't know what to do with the blueys he's sent me. Part of me wants to give them back because I just don't want to keep them, I can't.
No problems at all with the chat earlier... its what friends are for. I am glad you havent rung him though as its exactly what he is expecting. He needs to go the ADULT and correct thing by coming to see you face to face and giving you the closure you need. Then you can do your greiving and come to terms with things... weigh them all up and come out teh other end a much stronger person. (not saying your not strong though)
Also with the above quote... i think you know what I say you should do with them :D... but keep them for now, you will know what you wnat to do with them when the time comes x x x
I know Carla but you've just been bloody brilliant :o
I have a meeting with my personal tutor tomorrow about going back on placement. Because I haven't eaten since Monday - a week ago, holy moly!!!!! :eek: I didn't realise it was that long. and I haven't slept, I have three days left on placement and nobody is keen on me going back for health reasons. But I don't know. Then I'm going to get out of the meeting and ring Kev and leave him a voicemail regarding the weekend.
I know Carla but you've just been bloody brilliant :o
I have a meeting with my personal tutor tomorrow about going back on placement. Because I haven't eaten since Monday - a week ago, holy moly!!!!! :eek: I didn't realise it was that long. and I haven't slept, I have three days left on placement and nobody is keen on me going back for health reasons. But I don't know. Then I'm going to get out of the meeting and ring Kev and leave him a voicemail regarding the weekend.
Firsty... please eat... thats not good :( then ring and Im hoping you get an answer you want whether he is coming or not. Then get some sleep... Suzie dont let him make your career suffer, you have come too far for that and you will always end up regretting it and to be plainly honest... He isnt worth it.
Your Personal Tutor will help you go back into placement as they dont want you to be upsetting your career either but if you only have 3 days they may just allow you absence again.
If you need me you know where I am, nursing wise or just for a moan I dont mind :) Keep your pretty head up chick x
Woooooaaahhhhh , BEEAAAUUTIFUL Suzie ..... doooont let a boy ruin your career ....... Its not worth it AT ALL ...... Maybe you should step off? altho with you being so close to finishing, maybe a few months down the line ... you would regret .....
Here if you wanna talk &&&& PLEASE eat ... your a nurse, you no what the consequences of malnourishment does :(:(
Sendin you biiiiiiiiiiiiggggggg huggles missy ( & i dont live that far from you, dont make me come down there & mother you ... Altho i will if you need me to ;) )
xx xx xx xx
OK I rang him and left him a god-awful voicemail full of stuttering. Then he rang me back a few minutes later. I said "I know you don't want to hear from me" and he tried to interrupt but I just said "It's fine" and asked him about the weekend. He said it's fine, I can go round on Sunday. He told me to keep all his stuff because he doesn't want it back, but I'm not going to. It made me very sad hearing his voice, I just held it together and got off the phone as quick as I could.
I spilled a full cup of coffee over my personal tutors floor and desk. But he said I should go back to placement this week, it's too late in the day to be effing around missing time and as I much as I wish it wasnt, the world still carries on turning regardless of how crap I'm feeling!
OK I rang him and left him a god-awful voicemail full of stuttering. Then he rang me back a few minutes later. I said "I know you don't want to hear from me" and he tried to interrupt but I just said "It's fine" and asked him about the weekend. He said it's fine, I can go round on Sunday. He told me to keep all his stuff because he doesn't want it back, but I'm not going to. It made me very sad hearing his voice, I just held it together and got off the phone as quick as I could.
I spilled a full cup of coffee over my personal tutors floor and desk. But he said I should go back to placement this week, it's too late in the day to be effing around missing time and as I much as I wish it wasnt, the world still carries on turning regardless of how crap I'm feeling!
Im very proud of you for keeping it together Suzie... At least you now have a definate time you can go round, say you peace, exchange stuff and get closure.
I think your tutor is right to go back, if not Suzie you will just be making the time up at the end of the course when everyone else is qualified. You don't want to be doing that. Im really sorry you are feeling crap though but the world does keep moving and you need to look to the future...
You have always said how important your career is to me and you are so close to having your own and being a Professional... that is something to be darn proud of!!! so this is a smile :)
I have no doubt in my mind Suzie that with him being the way he is that you are too good for him and you deserve better. You will get this too as you deserve it.
Im going to stop babbling now.... much love x
Suuuzie, you can do this ........ i know you can ....... Bein a wag means you have got yourself through things that civvies wouldnt even last a second doing, and this being one of them ..... & im bloody proud of ya ........ I can only imagine what you are going thru .. but i tell ya, id be 1000 % worse than you ... which is why i think you are so bloody strong .....
... Now, rem you dont have long til you have the title 'Staff Nurse Bridge' .... so dont let anyone or anything get in your way ....
Always here for you darlin
xx xx xx xx
Thanks nurses :)
I know I'm going to be OK. It seemed like he was attempting to have a jolly conversation with me on the phone, but I don't know if I'm just reading too much into it - I probably am. But I'm not interested in anything he's got to say at the moment.
I am working Thurs, Fri and Sat night. Then meeting him Sunday. It's going to be a hard, horrible few days but once Sunday is over I'm off for a week, so I have a week to wallow and feel crap. Then I start a new placement where nobody knows me & none of them know me as a Wag like on my other placements, so I can start all fresh :)
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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how r u feelin 2day sweety? X x x x x
Hey Zoe was gonna text you before. I'm OK hun, starting to think about all the times he made me feel like crap and left me crying and stressing out, it's making it easier for me :) Hating him is loads easier than wanting him back!
Looking forward to the day when I can come back here and say "I have a shiny new boyfriend" :p
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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Hey Zoe was gonna text you before. I'm OK hun, starting to think about all the times he made me feel like crap and left me crying and stressing out, it's making it easier for me :) Hating him is loads easier than wanting him back!
Looking forward to the day when I can come back here and say "I have a shiny new boyfriend" :p
hehe :) did you have your bbq ??
thats probs what i would do to, it would make life sooo much easier to get on with. You will have a nice shiny boyfriend soon, no probs !! any1 would be lucky to have ya :)
What have you got planned then for when you go out for ya birthday with your fwends ?? x x x x x
I forgot to text you back about the BBQ because when you said 'is it gonna be sunny?' I thought Oh crap I never even thought of that!!
Lol we never had the BBQ I went out instead and got super duper drunk :D I was putting it off because I thought no I'll end up crying and making a show of myself, but I didn't cry once ... laughed a lot though. And also was loving Beyonce's Single Ladies faaaar too much :o
I think my next boyfriend is going to look like Josh Hartnett. I've just decided that... Now, the search is on!
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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I forgot to text you back about the BBQ because when you said 'is it gonna be sunny?' I thought Oh crap I never even thought of that!!
Lol we never had the BBQ I went out instead and got super duper drunk :D I was putting it off because I thought no I'll end up crying and making a show of myself, but I didn't cry once ... laughed a lot though. And also was loving Beyonce's Single Ladies faaaar too much :o
I think my next boyfriend is going to look like Josh Hartnett. I've just decided that... Now, the search is on!
haha its no probs lol awww i like the sound of that im glad you went out and had a super duper tym :D single ladies is a choon to always cheer ya up. haha well keep me updated on this search :p x x x x x
Hey Zoe was gonna text you before. I'm OK hun, starting to think about all the times he made me feel like crap and left me crying and stressing out, it's making it easier for me :) Hating him is loads easier than wanting him back!
Hahah ii love this, i did it too, mind you got to the point where i had more bad times than i did good! hehe xx
Aww Suze, I bloody love you hun!! Just thought I'd tell you tbh :p
xxx
Oh Stacey, that cheered me up!!
I was a bit sad last night, I stayed awake til about 2am reading through his blueys and then I wrote him a long letter with all the things that I know I won't be able to say when I see him. I might not give it to him, it depends on how I feel.
Now I just have the case of my absent period to clear up :confused:
Oh god! I hope you get your period soon!
But that aside, here's to fresh starts - not long now sweetie!
xxx
I hope I do too. this is the last thing I need. I'm sure it's just because I'm not looking after myself properly at the minute.
Thanks for all your support girls. I hate being in this part of the forum :(
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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I hate being in this part of the forum :(
me to :(:( x x x x x
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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oh and i 4got to say i text you, hope everything goes smoothly 4 you this weekend :) x x x x x
Thanks Zoe, sorry for texting back really late I was on the night shift at work and I was on my break about 1am when your text came through.
I'll message you later on explaining it all, but basically he's not coming home & things are a little strange x
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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Thanks Zoe, sorry for texting back really late I was on the night shift at work and I was on my break about 1am when your text came through.
I'll message you later on explaining it all, but basically he's not coming home & things are a little strange x
its not probs hunnie :) i did hear ma fone but i was half asleep lol thats why i txt back dis morning. Ive messaged you back sexy bum ;) wahahahaha, Hope youve had a lovely day btw :D x x x x
Just seen this hun, how come he didnt come home in the end??? is he being an arse???? hes only down the road, i can go beat him up for u if u need me to?! x x x
Yeah I think he is to be honest. I don't really understand why he feels the need to prolong this at all.
hey hun just reading through the posts and just wanted to give u a mahoosive ((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))
nah thats not fair at all!!! even though its over he is still keeping u hanging around and not letting u deal with it. grrrrrrr
I just don't know him any more. He said he'll be here Friday to get his crap but I've just booked another driving lesson because I know he won't turn up. Am I just being a nob? Should I just accept the 'over the phone' break up and forget about it and never speak to him again?
I don't see why he should be allowed to get away with it, it's making me so angry. He's been hiding down there burying his head in the sand while I've been stuck here trying to deal with it all. I honestly think I might kill him when I see him.
have u spoken to his parents about this?? i certainly wouldnt be able to deal with an over the phone break up. it just doesnt seem real that way, and the whole situation is just bloody weird if u ask me. it makes no sense at all!!!
No, I spoke to his mum via text the day after it happened. She sent me a message saying "Suzie I've just heard ... I don't know what to say, I'm gobsmacked. Please don't be a stranger"
I know that I'm more than welcome in his family home but I wouldn't be comfortable just turning up there. His sister and sister in law always text me but I feel like I'm putting them in the middle and I don't want that.
Me & Kev, or 'arse face' as he is stored in my phone as, have spoken on the phone like twice and text a couple of times since it happened. That's about it. I know it sounds but stupid but it's frightening me how quickly I'm adjusting to life without him. Because I'm in the "there's NOTHING I can do about it" frame of mind, I've just had to get on with it. So I imagine he's done the same too, so when we meet up it's going to be weird and we're going to feel like total strangers.
Firsrty Suzie... you are a superstar and I bloody think you are awesome.... loves :D
In a strage way Im glad you are adjusting as you deserve to be super happy
And secondly he will come and see you if I have to go down there, kidnap him, sling him in my boot and bring him to you. You deserve to have your say and get some closure on him being an utter pillock. He needs to grow a pair and face up to facts...
Lol I agree with Carla!! xxx
He sounds like he is being a right arse!!! tbh honest if he is going to be like that do you really want to see him? I think if it was me, it would just p*ss me off more. I know its not fair that he broke it off over the phone and all, but he sounds like he has completely changed hun from the guy you once knew! Leave him be I say, you deserve so much better xxx Show him that you are the strong one and you dont need him anymore - and tell him you are going to burn everything of his if he doesnt want it haha :D
Show him that you are the strong one and you dont need him anymore - and tell him you are going to burn everything of his if he doesnt want it haha :D
i would do this!!!
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Suzie.... if you do have a fire (which you know I am already very in favour of :D) Can I come??? I will bring wine and chocolate!!!!
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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Firsrty Suzie... you are a superstar and I bloody think you are awesome.... loves :D
In a strage way Im glad you are adjusting as you deserve to be super happy
Me to :D x x x x
I know you're all right. I don't know why I feel like I need to see him to give him his things back really. I've never broken up with someone in this way, I need the big, emotional goodbye I suppose... :confused:
suzie!!!i had no idea any of this happened!! my laptops been broke!! grrrr, all the girls r right your so much better then he is, its his loss definatly not yours!!
i think you need to neck tht bottle of cheap vodka (the cheaper the better) then wee on all his things...then burn them...the cheap vodka will have made your wee extremly flamable!!!!! then wee on the ashes n send them back to him in a plastic bag in the post!! i see the other girls agree in a ritual burning of his things, watching them urn while eating chocolates is good!! if u hadnt of wee'd on his stuff first you cud have roasted marshmellows over the flames!! not a good idea. unless you send them to him pretending you made him a treat...wee flavoured roasted marshmellows!!
I dont think its that you need an emotional goodbye, its tht you just need to say goodbye, you havent gotten the chance to do tht, it doesnt seem real i suppose. I'm so confused by his actions,i dont get y he did it, is this because im late in on this??
Love you suzie my fellow ninja warrior!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
P.S. i am pretty sure i have friend requested you on facebook, if so...YOUR FIT!! hes most definatly a loser, ive coverted to lesbianism...id watch out if i was you suzie...:-p xxxxxxxxx
He sounds like he is being a right arse!!! tbh honest if he is going to be like that do you really want to see him? I think if it was me, it would just p*ss me off more. I know its not fair that he broke it off over the phone and all, but he sounds like he has completely changed hun from the guy you once knew! Leave him be I say, you deserve so much better xxx Show him that you are the strong one and you dont need him anymore - and tell him you are going to burn everything of his if he doesnt want it haha :D
I agree with Erin.
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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P.S. i am pretty sure i have friend requested you on facebook, if so...YOUR FIT!! hes most definatly a loser, ive coverted to lesbianism...id watch out if i was you suzie...:-p xxxxxxxxx
hahaha same !! if i was a lesbo you'd def be top of my list. Hes crazyyyy !! :D:D x x x x x
Well it's good to know that I'll always have lesbianism to fall back on!
Well, I won't bore you all with the details of our phone conversation today but I have decided that I'm not going to see him. I thought I wanted closure but I don't want to hear anything he's got to say now, at the end of the day what's he going to say that will make me feel better? Nothing.
He's home on Friday and he thinks we're meeting up on Sunday. We aren't. I'm turning up at his house on Friday with his bag of crap, handing it over and then walking away with my head held high.
And I hope to God that when he see's me walking away from him he eats his heart out. He's just lost the best damn thing that ever happened to him.
So, in the words of the wise....
.... NEXT!!
Well it's good to know that I'll always have lesbianism to fall back on!
Well, I won't bore you all with the details of our phone conversation today but I have decided that I'm not going to see him. I thought I wanted closure but I don't want to hear anything he's got to say now, at the end of the day what's he going to say that will make me feel better? Nothing.
He's home on Friday and he thinks we're meeting up on Sunday. We aren't. I'm turning up at his house on Friday with his bag of crap, handing it over and then walking away with my head held high.
And I hope to God that when he see's me walking away from him he eats his heart out. He's just lost the best damn thing that ever happened to him.
So, in the words of the wise....
.... NEXT!!
LIKE LIKE LIKE LIKE LIKE LIKE!!!!! GO SUZIE!!! x X x
Like it Suzie!!! Good for you!
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Just been catching up bbe and im so proud of u for being so strong!!! You dont deserve this at all bbe, ur amazing and beautiful and remember its his loss bbe!! He will regret loosing u bbe trust me. Wen me and Trem split up i was devastated, but then it hit me...Y should i let him walk all over me and wait for him to change his mind, then wen i forgot and tried to get on with things i got an email of him saying he missed me etc...just go about life as much as possible bbe and try forget as much as u can and before u no it, he will be bk wanting u bk. If not then he wasent worth it in the first place. Sorry if im rambeling on lol...u no were i am if u need me.x x x x
Thanks Kirsty, I thought about you a lot through this situation because I know you handled it so well.
I know it sounds big-headed but I'm going to say it anyway - he will be back. Not for a while probably, because he's so busy having his bizarre midlife crisis right now. But come summer leave when he's got nothing to do and all the lads are in the U.S he's suddenly going to realise what he's done.
And I won't be here!
Suzie Suzie Suzieee!
First things first, you will most certainly not be single forever.....everyone says that when they come out of a long term relationship (i know i still think that lol but hearing someone else say it makes it sounds unreal :rolleyes:) especially coming from you...you're pretty, lovely personality and you have a sense of humour - this meaning your status updates make me chuckle so much sometimes lol)
For Kev just to leave you like that....was he worth it in the first place??? No girl deserves to be treated like that, especially you. You deserve to be treated like a princess, and you will be, when he comes along :) xxx
Sorry Suzie I lost track of this, I really admire your change of attitude. I completely understood your need for closure but I think you leaving your stuff there on the friday instead of meeting on the sunday is awesome, he wont expect it and i think it leaves u with the higher ground if u get me??? He has been a total idiot and you're right he will realise this at some point and the mistake he has made, if it doesnt happen this summer it will definately happen wen he starts meeting girls and realises what a fool he was to let someone who was so caring but also so relaxed go- not to mention so gorgeous as well lol. i honestly dont think he'll find a girl like u again hun xxx
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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if it doesnt happen this summer it will definately happen wen he starts meeting girls and realises what a fool he was to let someone who was so caring but also so relaxed go- not to mention so gorgeous as well lol. i honestly dont think he'll find a girl like u again hun xxx
defoooo !! well said hun :) soooo true :D x x x x
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOP! go suzie!!! aww im mega proud of you. He is the biggest loser ever, he cant do any better than you and he will soon realise this! Your gorgeous, hes an idiot, Your intelligent, hes dumb, Your cool, Hes a moron!!! He definatly does not deserve you in any way shape or form! Dont forget to wee on his stuff in this bag...a little present from you to him!!!
NINJA POWER! xxxxxxx
I know it sounds big-headed but I'm going to say it anyway - he will be back. Not for a while probably, because he's so busy having his bizarre midlife crisis right now. But come summer leave when he's got nothing to do and all the lads are in the U.S he's suddenly going to realise what he's done.
And I won't be here!
Firstly - lol! This turned out to be slightly true, he did come back... but I wasn't brave enough to not be there.
Secondly, I have just sat and read through this and cried my eyes out - not out of sadness, but just at how absolutely lovely you lot were. I still to this day remain touched by the amount of support I received from some of the girls on here when I was at my absolute lowest.
The other day I plugged in my hard-drive from my old laptop and found a word document I'd forgotten about - I'd copied and pasted all the nice things you lot had said about me when I first told you about the split and saved them to look at when I felt low :o and it just hit me that some of the people on this site, they aren't just names on a screen, they're real friends that I care for and I couldn't have gotten through this without. And I appreciate every single person who took the time to write something nice when I was feeling so low in those early days.
I'm going to stop being sentimental now. I'm so happy that I read through this, it's really put a lot of things into perspective for me.
:D :D :D :D
I'm so pleased you are feeling better lovely Suzie!!!
xxx
Suzie Suzie Suzieee!
First things first, you will most certainly not be single forever.....everyone says that when they come out of a long term relationship (i know i still think that lol but hearing someone else say it makes it sounds unreal :rolleyes:) especially coming from you...you're pretty, lovely personality and you have a sense of humour - this meaning your status updates make me chuckle so much sometimes lol)
For Kev just to leave you like that....was he worth it in the first place??? No girl deserves to be treated like that, especially you. You deserve to be treated like a princess, and you will be, when he comes along :) xxx
100% agree with this :)
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