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jennykins90
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Last night my OH had a meeting to go to at 6:30pm. Basically i said to him that when i comes home i want sex. I gave him all the signals, and i said i would be ready and waiting for when he gets home.
I got myself ready put some sexy lingerie on under my clothes so all i had to do was strip off.
So he comes home and sits down on the sofa and says..." i dont think we will do it tonight im to tired for sex"
I felt so disappointed because i had got myself ready and he knew that i wanted to have sex when he got home.
But the thing that annoyed me later on was the fact that he didnt even go to bed early, so he couldnt of been that tired!

I just dont get it. I gave him all the signals and i thought that he wouldnt turn the offer down!!!
kiwigirl
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Thats no good hun, its always horrible to get turned down, but I guess we forget that sometimes they just arent in the mood, like we are sometimes. Is there anything that has been stressing him out or on his mind lately, as I know when they are stressed their sex drive goes right down.

Maybe let him know that you were a bit disapointed, as it felt like he doesnt want you, and see what he has to say?

My OH gets like this sometimes when he is really tired or stressed, so maybe try again in a few days and see if anything has changed?
jennykins90
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I cant think of anything the has made him stressed. He is going away for the weekend maybe its that. But i thought that he would want to have lots of sex before he goes away.

I will ask him when he gets back tonight and see what he says.
jennykins90
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I said to my OH that i was dissapointed the other night because he said he was too tired for sex and he said he was sorry but its not because he didnt want sex he was just too tired.
He did make it up to me though last night ;)
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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I said to my OH that i was dissapointed the other night because he said he was too tired for sex and he said he was sorry but its not because he didnt want sex he was just too tired.
He did make it up to me though last night ;)

Glad to hear it :D:p:D hehe x x x x