View Full Version : Neever let me date an enginner!
no longer a gf, well i dont think anyway, convo went like this:
basically he sent me a text saying:
hey you, hope u has a gud day i got some bad news. i dnt really wanna meet up 2 day i got some things to thik over. ill contact u when im ready. soz.
I sent one back sayig just tell me now do u wanna be with me yes or no thats all i need
and his was: im not talkin about this over text ill meet u 2morrow.
yeah through text, so i dont think were together or anything im not sure.
Feeling a bit numb, and feel like its me cause i stop guys wanting a relationship. just wish he told me b4 i got myself all made up, had like a 3hour pamper session to get ready 4 tonight :(
Have a mate coming over to share wine, his gf cheated on him when he was away in iraq so gonna get emotional and drink!
Just thought id up date you, despite it on facebook havent told any of my mates, dunno if i can. Just not good with men.
I wouldn't jump to conclusions hun, he could have been told one of his relatives has a serious illness or something? So its best to just give him the space he needs for now and not think too much into it......which is easy for me to say as an outsider.....and especially as i overthink EVERYTHING.
I'd definately get drunk though....if not for yourself then for your mate :D Poor thing!! I say, get drunk, make voodoo dolls and eat kebab!!
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oh sarah you poor thing! but other sarah is right, dont just assume thats it, until ya meet up. In the mean time have a smashing night tonight as you deserve it!!! And think positive :D
I agree hun, try not to jump to conclusions. Easier said than done though. Concentrate on your mate tonight and try not to think about it and just have a fun night.
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Yeah i know, but hes been distant last few days, and he would of just told me cause thats what hes like. oh well thats life! xx
I agree with the girls hun, maybe hes got a bad previous past with woman and is scared? or somthings happened in his family.
Meet himt omorrow and hear him out, its porobably something that has nothing to do with your relationship xxxx mahooooosive hugs xxxx
I wouldn't jump to conclusions hun, wait to see what he has to say. And it's nothing to do with u, they're the ones with the problem, some guys just have commitment issues- it doesn't matter if you're Angelina Jolie if a guy has commitment issues he won't commit, so dont blame yourself xxx
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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aww hun hope your okay ! is it today your meetin him ?? you may have got it wrong and it might not be what you think, i hope so anyway. Its not you hun, never think its you as your a top girl !!! its his loss if does decide to end it. x x x x x
Hun sorry to hear that, im with the girls dont jump to conclusions yet he may just have other stuff on his mind. Good luck xxx
Like everyone else has said dont jump to conclusions. I might be something that has happened at work or something like that. Try not to think about it to much and just hear what he has to say.
I hope all goes well when you meet up with him. *Big hug* xx
oh Sarah, hope you're ok honey xx
Still no word, gonna give him tonight and if not send him a nice but firm text and see what happens.
Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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Still no word, gonna give him tonight and if not send him a nice but firm text and see what happens.
aww let us know how it goes hun ! fingers crossed its not as bad as you think x x x x
thanks dear, i know i shouldnt think the worst but hes not helping at all!
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Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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thanks dear, i know i shouldnt think the worst but hes not helping at all!
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aww i no ! Have you tried getting in touch with him ?? x x x x
Hes picking me up in 20 mins to go for a talk, but i can sense it, be prepared for an emotional sarah later! x
we broke up!
he said there was no spark, he liked me and thought i was a nice girl liked spending time with me, no spark. and wanted to see if it would work
Oh Sarah sweetie, I'm so so sorry. :( Don't give up though hun, mr right is out there and this guy obviously wasn't him.
Wish I could give you a real hug!!!
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thanks, thats the 2nd person thats been like i stayed with u to try and make it work,
He said it was more like campagionship (sp?) i dunno bit gutted and feel lost now :(
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Zoe Luvs Her SoldierBoi x
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aww hunnie :( you wil find that perfect guy soon, dont get downhearted and dont you start thinking its you coz its not *BIG HUGSSS*
I bet the right guy will just find you out of the blue or when your least expecting it. Keep your chin up missy x x x x x
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