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Well i went out on sunday night with a few of my girls and walking down the road i saw matt and his best mate approaching and my tummy flipped. I just smiled and said hi and he turned around to talk to me just polite stuff really like hows my night goin how im doing and stuff like that, but it made me feel really weird. I cant believe its nearly 5months since we broke up and thats the first time ive seen him!
He was fine with me, his mate was being a tw*t though, trying to get matt not to talk to me, and giving me evils which made me laugh as my mates were polite and didnt start anything. Didnt see what his problem was as i was the one that got dumped... But did make me think what matt ahd said about me.
But now its time to move on, i do still love him, i always will for a bit i think. but its now time to delete him off FB and phone number.
Just feel a bit weird.
Thank you for all you kind words :) xx
well done hun, its always gonna be a bit nerve-wracking but you did really well to think after that his phone number and fb are going, most people would give in and try and talk to them again, think youve done really well!! xx
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aww bless ya hunnie :) i bet its such a relief to get it out of the way now, uve seen him now so maybe you can have some closure. You can always stay friends if you wanted to, you dont have to not speak to eachother. By the sounds of it you were both very grown up about the situation except for his childish best mate (Loserrrr !!) lol. Hope your okay sweety :) x x x x x
aww hun i hate that bit where its been a while since you've broken up and then out of nowhere you bump into them. but well done you hun, you've done so amazingly well in getting through all of this and sounds like that was just what you needed to show urself that you can move on. it must be hard if you still love him hun, but you've come this far you can do it. any deleting him off fb and his number is a huge step too.
hope you're ok. xxx
Well done hun, that must have been really weird seeing him. It funny though how we just 'know' when we're ready to delete them out of our lives. Well done on getting there. And the time will also come when you realise that you are totally over him and your heart is ready to move on too. :) xxx
So proud of you hun, you are so, so strong. Just think only 20-something days until your new start!!!! xxx
Thanks :) I havent deleted his numbe yet, working myself up to do that!
But i did email one of his mates financees (sp?) cause i was quiet good friends with her tellin her why i needed to delete her and she understood so that made me feel better!
Yep 22 days till i move :) eeeexx
where are you moving to hun?? what sort of plans did u decide on in the end?! x
where are you moving to hun?? what sort of plans did u decide on in the end?! x
Moving back to my parents house iSOuth Wales, not looking forward to moving back with the parentals but i need to do it, plus its moving going down the drain in rent here not earning! Going to start to learn to drive when i get home so i can have a bit of my independence back!
Then I am looking for part time work really so i can volunteer somehwere for the other half. I am gonna study a TEFL qualification then hopefully next summer go somewhere and teach... That is the plan - but being very flexible with it! xx
Moving back to my parents house iSOuth Wales, not looking forward to moving back with the parentals but i need to do it, plus its moving going down the drain in rent here not earning! Going to start to learn to drive when i get home so i can have a bit of my independence back!
Then I am looking for part time work really so i can volunteer somehwere for the other half. I am gonna study a TEFL qualification then hopefully next summer go somewhere and teach... That is the plan - but being very flexible with it! xx
that sounds like an excellent plan hun :D:D
living back with the parents does suck, esp in my case... but it really is a godsend when your trying to save money!!!
good luck with the volunteering etc x
awww babe . you done the right thing being nice to him :) its nice that if that oppertunity arose he and you were both civil if im wording it rightly?
You will always have feeings for M honey, but theres someone out there who deserves your stronger feelings much more.
xxx
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