need a little advice...

[sexi-lil-lisa]

hey girls.

not been on for a while but i thought id pop on and see how everyone was doing and get a little bit of advice. im going into my second year of nursing at uni and i just moved into a new student house. so far there is me and 5 guys in the house. my fella not to keen on the idea but trusts me. one of my housemates was really strange to start with but i just thought he was trying too hard to fit in. then when me and my boyfriend had an arguement and i thought it might be over my housemate started texting me saying i am beautiful and he can make me better (wink wink). then asked if he was going to be my rebound. i confronted him and said all of this was out of order. but then this morning i woke up to a text on my phone from my housemate saying i love you. i flipped out and he said his mate had got hold of his phone which was also his excuse the other night. then he said that he wanted to make a fresh start with a kiss and a cuddle. which when i got angry he said was his mates advice. Does this creep anyone else out?
Also since he moved in he seems to watch everything i do. if i go in the kitchen to make a sandwich then he follows me, he even watched me peg my washing out on the line. its really weird and my boyfriend going mad because he is away with work for the week and cant do anything about it. I cant move out because im in contract and i cant afford 2 rents. Any ideas?

xxx

[Emzy]

aw hun bless ya. that is quite strange behaviour, i defo think somethings going on there. how come ur sharing with all guys? is there anyway you can swap with someone? i'm not sure how it all works coz i've not been to uni myself. i would feel uncomfortable around this guy.

i'd try having a serious talk with him and maybe have a friend there to support you. just say that ur feeling uncomfortable with his behaviour and its not fair that he's making you feel like that :(

hope u manage to sort something out hun. must be a difficult situation for you. i'm glad ur oh is understanding and trusts you, i know my hubbi would hate it if i lived with a load of guys. xx

[Lolo1982]

urm that isn't normal behaviour babe and if i were u i would be very wary. he seems to know alot about ur own relationship with ur OH too! please let ur OH know of this, but without him kicking off of course! just make it very clear to him that ur not liking the way he leers at u but say it in other ways!