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Hi girls hope you are all well, thought id pop my head in and say hi hope your all well. Congrats to all new mums to all those who are engaged and those who are newly wed.
Im so sorry its been so long I've had one disaster after another had my ex threatening me take stuff from the house a number of times without my consent and then to top it off had him hack into my email and fb as some of you might know.
How ever havent herd off him in a number of weeks after having to ring the police yet again. He obviously doesnt want anything to do with josh as he hasnt made any attempted for contact. (just noticed i need to change my username)
Good things to come out of it im getting fit again doing things for myself ive gone back to what i was doing before i had my son. so hopefully fingers crossed that will go well and i will be doing the best i can for josh and get out of the job i have atm. Seems work wont give me the etra hours so i can get help with child care this is the fifth month of asking. And now they have dropped my hours to below what im contracted to right before christmas but will employ some else. Josh has really come out of his shell hes saying alot of words and is allowing men to talk to him without flinching and now follows my mates husband round holding a conversation with him. so im so pleased with how hes developing. just have to focus on me a little more now get my confidence back and get back to being the hannah that everyone knew.
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Hugs Hannah, I'm sorry you are having such a ****ty time. Hang in there. You are beautiful and a great person. Josh is a beautiful baby boy, and you are doing an excellent job raising him. Things will turn around for you soon. xx
hey sweetie, good to hav you drop in on us! im glad your ex seems to be stayin away now, you dont need that extra stress while you're tryin to get sorted. n by the sounds of it you've made a good start for you n josh. 1 thing thats botherin me is your work! they cant drop your hours below the number thats contractual! thats illegal in itself, then add on the fact that they've employed someone new to cover!! makes me wanna go down there n smack their arses myself! if i were you, id go in there n tel them exactly how you feel. if you can record the conversation on your phone then brilliant. dont be worried about talkin to them, they kno they cant do wot they did - they're pickin on someone who's had their confidence knocked n you need to show them that the old hannahs back!! im so angry for you babe! but apart frm that rant lol, im wel chuffed you're gettin yourself back on track after all thats gone on in the past, you're doin a brilliant job raisin josh n you should be so proud of yourself - big hugs x x x
Your doing so well, should be very very proud of yourself, well done you, and keep it up. Hugs xxxx
Weird - I was just thinking about you the other day! I'm so glad you've come back to let us know how you're getting on. And I'm even more glad to hear that it sounds like you're turning the corner towards happier days! Well done hun - it's not an easy ride but you're getting there and as the saying goes... what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger and you're showing yourself that you are one strong lady!
There are plenty of ex-wags on here so please do stick around now as you are more than welcome!
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Hi Hun
glad to hear from you, and to hear your getting on well. Sounds like Josh is coming on loads well done little man. xx
Hey hun, good to hear from you! And even though you have been through a rough time with your ex, it sounds like you are really doing well for yourself and coming out the other end :) Fingers crossed you dont have anymore hassle from him, and hopefully you can sort things out with your work, as that is just not on them reducing your hours and then hiring someone else!!! You are a great mum hun, so keep up the good work xxx
Sorry to hear your having problems with your ex, and your job!
It will get better though, and you should be so proud of yourself for being strong. Glad to hear josh is doing well!
Where are you living now? Still on camp or have you moved home?
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aww hun lovely to hear from you. sorry to hear about how ur ex has been, glad he's not contact u in a while though. also sorry to hear about ur work. that's awful they're doing that especially if they're going to employ someone else. i hate how the job market is atm, its not easy to find work but seems like a new job may be the answer for you.
sounds like Josh is making great progress hun. well done to you, you've had some tough times but you've proven ur a fighter and i'm sure you'll sort everything out in regards to work etc, and continue to help Josh make more and more progress. xxx
Awww thank you so much for coming back to let us know how you are getting on. I often think of you and wonder how things are.
You have had a real rough time of it, but so glad you got away from the idiot ex. Unfortunately it is hard, like starting all over again, but already you're onto a winner by not having him manipulating and controlling you and it shows just how bad it was by the difference in Josh's behaviour.
Things will get better, it's a hard battle at times being a single mum, but you're a tough u'll cookie and you'll keep going and there will be light at the end of the tunnel!
I'll speak to Anna about getting your name changed on here if you like. please dont be a stranger though :D
i think its down to the fact the other week i worked 6 days out of 7 so they dont want to pay me the over time shes an xmas temp but really they should ask the staff if they want the over time to those who need it.
Yeah saying he hasnt had any contact got a weird text today off him being nice but im not going to fall into that trap hes already messed around once with saying hes going to see josh for a day but instead went and i did things for his mates at work. Its been tough he took things from the house again like tables my underwear strangley enough and some dresses. Went to an organisation today re-housing been sent to another place instead sort of feel being pulled from pillar to post they wont get involved due to the fact im an ex army wife and this is an army house. Im still in the mq but have to be out by the 11th of jan. Yeah im glad im looking at another career i know it sounds stupid but im going back to what i was doing before i had josh i need to do something for me that im going to enjoy but ultimatly i can provide for josh better. im thinking tonight after ive done my fitness im going to have a nice relaxing bubble bath. Im really pleased with myself ive lost weight 5kgs:D and starting to tone up getting back to me and im being noticed for it. Not that i have anyone new in my life dont need the hassle yet. I want my career first then we might have a look lol.
Sort of a bit envious though everyone having babies or trying for one at the moment. Always wanted another when josh was around this age but i know whats best for josh and myself.
Forgot to mention i have my mother down for xmas when i said i didnt want her coming down she still went and brought tickets to come down. i think its down to the fact shes having yet more man trouble and doesnt want to spend xmas with my sister. so more things for me to do lol. At the moment she wont be going anywhere with this snow.
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Great to hear from you back on here &...
WELL DONE YOU with how you are dealing with things, getting stronger & doing what is best for YOU & your son.
Knowing past threads that you had posted, you have had to go through an immense time & I am really pleased that you have dealt with your ex the way you have.
Hope that you will keep on popping on here to keep us posted, but keep doing what you are doing & you will be fine.
Sending you much love, a happy Christmas & a much deserved more peaceful New Year...
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hello babe i was wondering about u the other day and thinking how u were getting on with things. wow good for u on getting fit and sorting things out. u went through some sh1t with him and to hear Josh is totally different now is such a relief for u. i hope u get some housing sorted, if anything they should help u quicker as u will be homeless come the 11th so they need to pull their weight. it sounds like things are on the up and u are seeming so much happier now which is fab news! xxxx
Thanks girls, yeah just hoping the snow clears so i can go and sort it. Im so pleased with how hes developing hes completly different from 3 months ago. I caught him with the washing powder and fabric softner and he was scooping it into the drawer of the washing machiene but i also catch him cleaning tables lol. Im so glad to have my little boy back. I know these next few months will be hard but its going to be worth it. Xxx
hey hun - how are you doing? nice to hear from you sweetie xxx
sorry to hear that you are suffering in the snow! but sounds as if your little one is doing well xxxxxxxxx
Any news on housing yet hun?!
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