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Right ladies....
Who thinks it is acceptable for their other halves to look at porn? Either magazines, websites or films do you find it acceptable or unacceptable?
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I think its acceptable, as long as its not a substitute for myself!
Karls away 5 days a week and when he gets home sometimes he doesnt get any so i dont expect him to sit around and hold it all in! lol.
If he became addicted..... then that would be another situation!!
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Lol...my God imagine if he held it all in. When he came (if you were on top) you'd hit the ceiling!!!!
I wonder if many bloke can go for ages without sex or a wank?
When I was younger I had an issue with porn now I'm not so bothered. Like you I would if he was watching it all the time and not having sex with me, or if he always wanted to watch porn during or before sex....be like he needed more stimulation that just me!:o
I never used to like the idea of porn but i watch it now n again when hes not in the country lol! Its not only men who need it!
I wouldnt watch it before or during sex though. That would be strange, as it would be like having other people there :confused:
I am fine with porn, it is just something to accept with men, I mean it is only helping along their imaginations... it isn't like being cheated on. However, my o/h doesn't really have any, to be honest he actually prefers it if I fit into the fantasy somehow!! I like him to be open and honest and he knows I really don't mind things like that and well occasionally it can be an interesting sex toy!!
I had a friend whose fella used to download it and hide it in a locked folder - I think that I would have a problem with.
Personally, I couldn't give two hoots about porn.
He always comes back to me.
As long as it's nothing really nasty, really don't mind.
The women that do porn choose to do porn, let them have an industry and a livelihood lol.
Mags, films, internet, it's all the same and all good.
:DIm fine with Lee looking/watching porn cause at the end of the day i know he is only really interested in having sex with me LOL, Its more fun if you make you own though :D
I had a friend whose fella used to download it and hide it in a locked folder - I think that I would have a problem with.
Someone has an obsession! That is weird!!
I have no problem with porn, I watch it myself. I never used to like it but would rather OH be honest about it, and once I let my defenses down I realized that porn is just one of those things you can either really dislike or you can just get on with it and accept that men do watch it.
Besides, as long as he comes back to my bed, who am I to begrudge him of some late night viewing pleasure whilst he is away? lol xx
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I dont have a problem with it now. I used to when i 1st realised he was watching it as i felt like i was doing summat wrong or werent turning him on lol, dont ask me why i felt like that lmaoooo :D
anyway now i dont really bother as now hes in the army youve got to release that sexual frustration ha, i watch it maself when OH is away and it does really turn me on :o x x x x
I think it's inevitable for men to look at porn...it's just something they do and you have to accept it! As long as they don't get obsessed; but my guy know which side his bread is buttered! lol
i dont mind it in the slightest.. i like to have a peak myself either with or without OH!! ;)
i had a prob years ago with it when i was with my ex and he was watching it, but its coz we werent sleeping together at all (6 months without!:eek: and not coz of tour, we slept in same room!!)
but my current OH watches it and i dont mind! but my OH admits he watches it alot less now he has me to fulfill him!! im usually the one turning on some late night shows!! :)
I dont mind tbh, he does it without me knowing, i cant be at home worrying if hes watched it haha. My m8 h8s it lol...i dont care though its a lad thing!!!xxx
Haha no it dosent bother me at all cos I watch it to hehe :p
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